We want children and he has been having therapy since his first arrest, but I’m scared he will be jailed or his urge will get out of control again. Annalisa Barbieri advises a readerMy husband and I have been married for almost three years. We are of different cultural backgrounds: he is European and I am Asian. Shortly after our wedding, he was arrested for voyeurism. Since then, we have been having therapy and have discovered his undiagnosed autism. We both want children and my parents-in-law are very supportive. But although we are having fertility treatment, he was arrested again a few weeks ago. Our relationship is strong and we decided to see our counsellor more often. What I don’t dare to bring up in our conversation is my fear of him being a role model as a father. I am scared that he will be jailed or his “urge” will get out of control again. My parents and family are far away and none of these facts has been disclosed to them. I feel guilty hiding the truth, but I fear their judgments. I can’t stop wondering if I was blind to all these things that happened under my nose. Continue reading…
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